Friendships are a big part of school life - especially in primary school, where children are learning how to connect, share, and solve problems together. For some kids, making friends comes naturally. For others, they may require some additional support.

Why Friendships Matter
Having even one good friend can make a huge difference to a child’s confidence, sense of belonging, and enjoyment at school. Friendships help kids:

• Practice social skills
• Learn empathy and cooperation
• Feel supported during the school day

What Helps Children Make Friends?
There are many ways we can help children build their friendship skills. Here are a few practical ideas:

• Practice at home: Role-play things like how to introduce yourself, join a game, or ask someone to play.
• Talk about kindness: Encourage your child to notice and show friendly behaviours - smiling, sharing, using names, or including others.
• Set up playdates: Even short catch-ups after school or on weekends can help friendships grow.
• Praise effort: Celebrate when your child makes a small social step (e.g. saying hello, joining in, asking a question).

When It’s Tricky
Some children may feel shy, nervous, or unsure of how to connect with others. Others might struggle with the ups and downs of friendship drama. This is normal, and it’s something we can support them with over time.

What can help?
Encourage your child to:

• Keep trying, even if it’s hard at first
• Look for children with similar interests
• Ask an adult for help if they feel lonely or unsure

We’re Here to Help
If your child is finding it hard to make or keep friends, please don’t hesitate to reach out. I can provide you with resources, or work with your child on social skills, friendship challenges, and confidence-building.

Friendship is a skill! And just like reading or riding a bike, it gets easier with time, encouragement, and a little support.

Please don’t hesitate to reach out via email at amelie.nicholson@mccg.org.au or through completion of a referral using the following link:  https://mccg.my.site.com/housing/s/school-referral-form.

Warmly,
Amelie Nicholson
Student and Family Counsellor